Setting boundaries - what they are, how to set them, why we allow ourselves and others to disrespect them and how to start respecting our own boundaries.
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You are not alone
The fact that I do a lot of energy work is no secret. Doing this is what helped me let go of my broken dreams, what helped me heal and let go of the past. It is what helped me let go of control and embrace change, embrace Life. To grow! To allow myself to flow where Life is talking me instead of fighting the currents to get where I thought I wanted to get. It’s also what taught me how to consciously create the life I want and how to be constantly open to updating my ideas about what kind of life I want. How to listen to my…
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Falling in love with London, the amazing city I call my home
Ever since the second lockdown started, I felt it would be a different one (and thankfully, I was right). So I planned on going out for a daily walk, to still enjoy the city (yes, we are allowed!). I’m fortunate enough to live in one of my favourite neighbourhoods in London, so a walk here is a delight. I didn’t get to do it daily as I planned, but on the days I did, I was so happy to be doing it, that nothing else mattered. I was walking through the rain and it didn’t bother me one bit. The city was so beautiful, that just seeing it’s charm and…
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The one thing that can change the world is LOVE
We are living amazing times. Scary, but amazing. Scary because we don’t know what will happen next. We feel like we have no control over our lives, our freedoms have been infringed, our livelihood sources disappeared and we finally realized that the systems in place are not working as they should. We need new ones. But we have no idea how they should look and be like. On New Years Eve I was feeling for sure that 2020 is going to be an amazing year. A year of change and growth. I just knew it! (My main extrasensory way of perception is clear-knowing). But I never imagined it would be…
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What makes your heart sing?
Today I want to talk to you about something different. I want to talk about what makes me truly happy. Not just happy, but over the moon happy, or how I like to describe it: making my heart sing. If I think about it, I would say this is the closest thing to magic I ever felt. So what is it that makes my heart sing? First, I want to tell you something about me that may resonate with you as well. Whenever I enjoy something immensely, with all my being, I feel something that is indescribable. I feel my heart and every cell of my body bursting with pure…
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Why listening to my intuition is the best thing I can do
Our choices create our reality. This is why how we make a choice is vital to creating the kind of life we want to live. It’s important to be aware that we see the present and the future through the lenses of the past. But today I am not who I was yesterday, I have already outgrown that version of myself. So not all the truth from the past is the truth of today. We make decisions and we choose what to do based on our experience. But our experience is biased. We have a certain experience until we learn our lesson. But once we do, we don’t need to…
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What is your soundtrack?
I just finished watching a series on Netflix named Soundtrack. I’m not even sure I liked it, there were things I liked and things I didn’t, but the end of the last episode spoke to me in such a beautiful way! Sam said something that I always felt deeply but couldn’t put into words before. He talks about how every song is a love song. That every single one is about a form of love somehow. And the thing that resonated deeply with me was: “Each one of us has a soundtrack. It is as idiosyncratic as our fingerprint. It defines who we are, and it tells the story of…
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How to truly be consistent with who you are
I started writing this post a few months ago, when I was in a situation where I promised myself years ago I wouldn’t end up ever again. And I wrote the first part of it but because I still didn’t have enough clarity, I didn’t get to finish it. Now, I stumbled upon it and decided it was time for me to finish it. Little did I know that this was Life giving me an important answer I needed, in order to be able to realize that I am doing the right thing by changing my mind about a very important issue in my life. I asked Life to help…
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The year that changed my life
The day I left Bucharest to go to London for what I thought would be one or two months of time for myself and time to enjoy & experience a city I love, I heard a song that I couldn’t get out of my head the whole day. So I listened to it on repeat for more than 3 hours on my flight. It said: Darlin’, pack a suitcase Let’s get away and start over Smoke a J by the waves while we sip on some ice cold Corona Let’s take it back in the day to when we first knew it was over Let’s take time to fall in…
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Taking the scenic route through life
Today I left Bucharest to go home to my parents. My way home goes through one of the most beautiful places in Romania. It’s a very long road, but for me it’s totally worth the while. Normally it takes me five and a half to six hours to get home, depending on the traffic. I like to take this time to just enjoy the road, listen to music while singing from the top of my lungs and to just spend time with myself. So I was on my way home and when I reached my favorite part, and I just felt a deep gratitude for being able to see such…
